Thousands of troops would move by the move of my finger. Now in retirement I’ve hard time bringing a plumber to my house.

Attributed to Gen. Schwarzcopf

Men are all about power. It’s part of their nature. When they lose their power due to lost job or retirement for example some try to compensate in various “managerial” roles in entities no one else wants to manage such as HOA, various clubs, groups and sadly their own families just for the fulfillment of managing often to extreme annoyance of those under management.